Help Me – My Ex Boyfriend Is Not Answering my Calls
January 17, 2010 by Kim Sanchez
Filed under Dating
A broken relationship is something that is really hard to patch up especially when it ended in a bad light. The persons involve may want to get back together but sometimes prides hold them back in making things right.
A friend of mine just recently broken up with her ex boyfriend. Realizing that it was her fault and that she had to do something about it, she tried calling her ex boyfriend. She was calling her ex boyfriend everyday for several days but to no avail. Her calls remained unanswered. Even the messages left to his voice mails and answering machine were not returned. I told her that her boyfriend might still be reeling from the pain of separation and gave her some advice on how to go about it.Read on to know about how to make your ex boyfriend answer your calls and talk to you.
The first thing that you should do is do not harass or stalk him by making so many phone calls in a day. He might feel that he is being pushed against the wall to make any decisions immediately. Let him think first about your situation. So give him time to think about everything.
The second thing that you need to do is to leave curiosity driven messages on his voice mail or mobile phone. Do not go in circles with your message. Get to the point and rehearse your voice mail as much as you can. Do not just act on emotions or whims. You have to appeal to his logical side rather than appealing to his emotions. If he does not respond just give him time to think for himself then.
If he still does not call you, then that is the time to resort to other measures. You can ask the help of a common friend close to the two of you to help you with him. Use your friend\’s phone to make a call, and he will definitely answer it. It\’s also good to make your friend talk to him first before giving to you the phone. At the very least, your friend could make a little explanation about what you\’re doing.
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