21 Questions To Rescue On A Date

Questions are the most interesting things that we can come up with when we want to learn about someone else.

Dale Carnegie in his timeless bestselling book, \”How to win friends and influence people\” talks about the power of asking good questions to show that we are interested in someone else.

You must have been to a party and you\’ve been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting – funny that! You probably did less that 20% of the talking but you got 100% of the credit!

If you\’re a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself leap-frogging to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.

If you\’re a lady and want to stroke a guy\’s ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!

Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you are genuine, you will always win someone over quickly. They will feel your genuine interest and respond. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.

Here\’s 21 questions to ask to get conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.

Here\’s 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl

1. If you\’re a waiter and a customer was super rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or think about doing this?

2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?

3. If you had the chance to choose 5 people to invite to dinner – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?

4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?

5. If someone were to make a comedy show about part of your life, which part would they script and what would be found in the script?

6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?

7. What do you regret the most in your life?

8. What has been the weirdest experience in your whole entire life?

9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much smaller or taller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?

10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?

11. What\’s the worst lie you\’ve ever told in your life? Where you caught out?

12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?

13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?

14. Which do you prefer the most in a woman – intelligence, a good body or good looks?

Time to get a little more personal!

15. Have you ever had sex in a public place? If so did you get caught?

16. What\’s the difference between making love and having sex for you and which do you prefer?

17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?

18. What turns you on the most?

19. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?

20. Has anyone ever caught you masturbating? If they did what did you do?

21. Have you ever serial sex – with one person and then been with a different person somewhere else within the same day?

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